Hi Doreen,

He’s only as good as he thinks you’re not looking. That said, people can change, and it could be him virtually sowing his wild oats while he’s still technically single. Tell him you are going on vacation ~ alone ~ to a spa because, as he knows, you deserve it. While you’re gone, notice how much he texts you. Also have a trusted neighbor check up on him. If he’s gone all the time or if there’s strange people in your house, that’s all you need to know. The neighbor also might come over to a house in disarray and a depressed man. That’s a good sign, it means he misses you!

So that’s what I would do.

Good Luck,

Inky