Alright going to update this due to recent events with me and the gal.

So I decided as everyone mentioned to go off the charts for a bit do my thing. So I did. Four to five days pass and out of no where I get a message from her just a spontaneous “Hey! How are you?” kinda thing. I decide to play coy a bit and sent her a message just before work “Hey, just going to work, try me over the next couple days..”

Sunday rolls around we end up messaging each other again and having a nice conversation. At this point I decide to to drop with the non-responsive waiting a certain period of time before texting thing, and chose to be my authentic genuine self. So I do and Im asking how she’s doing, how her weekend was, joking around, making her laugh, etc. End our conversation on a good note and told her if she has the next couple evenings off to give me a ring, she replies back “totally! ok have a good night!” I guess we can only perceive so much behind text what the actual intent is, but knowing her and her character I know she’s being her cheerful genuine self as I read the message.

Monday rolls around no dice, ended up just shooting the shit with her before bed (text convo just checking in, joked around, laughed, was nice)

The next day (which is today) I texted her a short but sweet message at the end of my shift suggesting a tea and movie night, turns out she already has plans…

So I’m finally hitting a turning point and deciding enough is enough. I am sorry but I am genuinely suggesting evenings for us to get together, and even potentially holding nights free for a happening, but nothing is reciprocating back. She isn’t even suggesting an alternative day or night to get together. One of my friends told me to give it three tries, and after 3 and there is no bite, you need to cut your ties.

Well it has been three times know over the past three weeks. If she honestly wanted to get together, as she mentioned 3 months ago, I believe she would have made the time of day for me. But at this point I feel so disheartened that it really is frustrating, and my mental and emotional health is drained! I’m so done! I’m going to finally stop asking, because it clearly shows that she isn’t willing to get together. And I’m sure if we do, it will be for the sole reason so I can lend her my textbook for the next semester. The question is, do I really want to now? I know I will because I am “a nice guy” (I hate this label…).

At the end of the day, it’s only one person. It really is too bad because I saw so much potential in her. She really is a sweet heart and is amazing. But at some point I need to draw the line, and today I am doing so.

Rant over. Thanks to who-ever listened.

I feel as if I want to address her about this, but at the same time I probably shouldn’t. I know when I lend her the text though, I want to leave her a note. Due to my life changing next year in a big way, I won’t be around town anymore nor going to the same university, so I thought as a tid-bit I’d write her a memorable something and leave it in the text.

Anyways, any last advice on this whole ordeal would be cool. If not, thanks for listening/reading. Much appreciated.

– Spidey