Women confuse me. I left my dating profile up until the end of the month but not planning to pursue anyone. One woman keeps checking out my profile, so a couple of days before xmas, I send her a message telling her to have a merry Christmas. She responds and wants to get to know each other. When I start to send her messages and ask her a little about herself, and how things have been, she sends short messages saying she will get back to me. After my last message, she hasn’t gotten back to me. I give up for now.

I know it is around xmas time. People get busy, I know that. I’m busy. I have two kids who were with me over the entire time at Christmas, but I still quickly sent a message to this woman, so give me a break already. If people are on the site anyways, what is the big effort in messaging someone back. It goes back to that whole courtesy thing where you don’t lead people on or leave them hanging.