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Hi Steve…Ahh…well it sounds like you already tried my method 🙂 Yeah – honestly – her heart was probably stuck on some other dude.
yeah online dating sucks. I myself don’t do it. (I think we are around the same age I’m in my late 30s) I tried a couple of times for like a week in the last 4 years (in between my two long term boyfriends). I just wasn’t digging it. Too much work and too many lies. If I saw another 50 year old posing as a 40 year old I was going to scream.
I’ve become a little better at the dating thing (its daunting out of a divorce). So not entirely lost…but the problem is that all relationships start differently. I guess. For instance…my last two bf I’ve had after my divorce. Bang! it worked from the get go. This guy I’m going out with….eh…I’m not sure. And honestly – I think we are probably just feeling like “maybe its fizzling?” who knows…
Would you be so kind to read my post (confused about guy I’m dating) and give me some sound Steve from Canada advice?
I haven’t pulled the plug yet but it’s tick tick tocking.
Meet someone at the gym – or out at a jazz place – or at a 5K run – or at the grocery store. Trust me – we are out there. Waiting for a cool ass dude like you.
pss – if I told you where I am (which I can’t for anonymous reasons and just in case my dude is by chance reading this post) you’d be so jealous. Cold cold Canada! I lived there as a little girl.