OK, It’s him too. Of course it is. He is part of this.
I know he is a work a holic.
He works every day (attorney) and is self employed. He leaves work and goes by whatever place they want food ( adopted daughter and wife) and brings it to them. It costs a small fortune to eat out every night. But she won’t cook!
I know he does this because I am on the phone with him when is ordering and driving home.
He eats, showers and texts me soon after until he falls asleep.
I don’t know why she fell out of love with him. He thinks she just wanted someone to take care of her because that is what it has boiled down to. And also she couldn’t have children and right after they adopted their child, she checked out of the marriage.
I just don’t understand why he keeps doing it. He says he wants to have everything ready when he leaves so there won’t be a lot of drama and him stuck in the house with her.