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Archie,
She sounds like a wonderful person, but not the one for you right now.
You said it over and over. You really are not attracted to her and attraction is a huge thing in a relationship.
You don’t want to spend your life in a relationship with someone you don’t find attractive.
You WANT to want to make it work because she has good qualities and is beautiful.
But it is not enough. You need attraction! It is what make the relationship fun and exciting and, Challenging!
You can always see her again if you want to, but until you feel settle in your heart that she is “the one” don’t make any major moves of relocation.
I wish you the best!