Jey.

First, I agree with what you’re saying but allowing these things to effect you so greatly is taking away your ability to find happiness. The things that bother you to this degree are things that are the same things that are keeping you away from letting them go and accepting them for what they are. It would serve you well to reflect within yourself and figure out why these things truly bother you. If you’re truly happy within yourself, then what could possibly be worth getting angry at and losing your happiness?

People reflect on their past achievements to find strength and to empower themselves; others use their past failures to fuel their own fear of trying new things in order for them to see new opportunities as future failures then use that as a reason to stick with what they are comfortable with. These people limit their ability to live in the present moment which results in stress, anxiety, and fear. Accepting someone can only be achieved when you’re aware of the fact that everyone in the world is doing the best they can from their level of consciousness. Meaning, people are doing the best the can with the small amount of information they have. In order to respect their decisions and their life’s path, find respect for yours. What makes others happy doesn’t effect you so focus on what you need in order to be happy.

What is the purpose of different universes to us? Why does everything have to have a purpose? What would you do if you lost your memory completely and had no idea who you were? Would that stop you from feeling fulfilled and happy in life? You deserve happiness just as much as every living creature on this Earth and there’s nothing that should stop any of us from finding pure happiness.

If you need life to mean something, find meaning in expressing compassion to others, find purpose in kindness, and truth in love. By following customary or traditional beliefs, you limit your ability to understand what you honestly believe which effects the values you live by as well. Don’t point the finger at other’s mistakes, focus on what you need to do in order to be internally joyful, then share it with the world.

“Our only purpose in life is to find happiness in our lives, then selflessly share it with our everything around us.”

Good luck! I hope this helped in some way.

Thepathofaronin.blogspot.com is my personal blog and may help if you need any advice.

Take care, friend.