Hi Ivan,

I think you answered your own question there in that those who refuse to take responsibility of their actions are doomed to repeat their mistakes. The thing is, there is nothing you can do about it because the more you push, the harder he will fight. Maybe one day he will wake up and realise that he want to change his life around and when that day arrives, you can be there to assist him but before that happens all you can do is sit and wait.