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Everyone is meant for happiness and awesomeness :), but…
It’s like compounded interest, have you ever taken an economics course in college? Anyway, if you put a little in the bank now, it grows and grows and grows. If you wait five years or ten years, and then put a little in the bank, you’ll never have as much as you would if you started now.
So it will get harder, if you wait. If you start now, it will get easier.
Also, if I may be so bold: take all that love that you have and give it to people who really need it. Is there some perfect guy out there with rugged good looks who needs your love? Maybe; but there are millions of people and animals who are poor and lonely and sick who need that love too. Find an outlet for your love that doesn’t require a specific person. Volunteer with an organization, or visit with an elderly neighbor.
If you start sharing yourself with other people now, when a man falls in love with you because of what an awesome human you are, you will have practiced enough that it will just be effortless.
- This reply was modified 9 years, 10 months ago by Stephen.