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Hi Becky,
When you lived together, you saw his Shadow Side. Everyone has one, by the way. He made the mistake of showing his. Constantly for two years!! I can see getting back together with someone after they had said something in anger or had one good fight. But this was emotional abuse.
If you get back together with him, don’t move in with him. And would you really marry or have a child with him? Then you’re stuck.
Him not knowing where you live? Very wise.
The more you “deal” with the flashbacks, the more they stay with you. But if you push them back, they are still in you subconscious. Time, time, and more time will make it a little better by increments.
Pick Someone who Treats you like a Queen,
Inky