His aggression — punching walls, destroying your possessions, and locking you up — do qualify as abusive behaviour. It also sounds like he kept you basically attention-starved.

I’m glad you’re not considering getting back with this guy. He sounds like bad news. Yes, maybe you have jealousy/insecurity issues, but you deserve to be treated well all the same. He should have tried to help you get over your jealousy, not used it as a club to beat you with.

Good riddence, and keep walking, sister.