I sympathize with your heartbreak.

However I do believe you are not seeing things clearly. If someone breaks up with you it is up to them to repair the relationship… But the real question is why would you even consider dating someone who doesn’t love you in return? Doesn’t this sound like an unhealthy relationship? Masochistic behavior? Please focus your energy on self improvement and finding a more suitable mate… Women have plenty of options these days as they are in shortage.

I would use this as a learning experience. Looks and physical attraction initially attract a male but it the personality that makes them stay. Were you a positive sweet and supportive mate or one that was negative and nagging? How well you treat your bf plays a very large role in the outcome. In return your mate should be confident, affectionate, and a lot of fun.

To be honest in your email it sounds like your ego is having a difficult time being dumped. Do not take it personal as even the rich powerful and beautiful get their hearts kicked around.

Sometimes the most empowering thing you can do is nothing. This will prove to your ex that you are over them not by writing a “I know we had to breakup before you actually dumped me” type of letter. The only exception to this rule is in the rare case that you really messed up such as cheating, threatening, or being unloving. In that case, by all means swallow your pride and admit fault… But the letter should read more along the lines of… “I’m sorry for how I treated you. It was wrong. I still care deeply about you. Can we grab coffee this week?”.

Namaste