Will

I am entitled to my opinion just as you are. I have dated and am currently married to a beautiful woman so I feel like I am entitled to share from my perspective.

There is nothing wrong with having healthy male role models…. Perhaps you’d like him to look up to an emasculated and broken man that cries himself to sleep instead? You’re essentially advising him to wallow is his misery rather than finally take charge of his life. That is a loser mentality. Enough time has passed and he needs a little pep talk… Not a box of Kleenexes.

Moreover I advised him to pursue meditation which makes sense considering the theme of this website. A life changing practice. I would not discount this advice or take it lightly. If he was actively meditating he would see things clearly and already let go of these negative emotions.

The reason I advise friends to pursue many different options while dating is the reality that dating is a numbers game… Beautiful women have so many options in the US that you cannot even fathom. Everywhere they go men are bending over backwards to buy them drinks, open doors, etc… There is nothing wrong with asking for 10 phone numbers if it will help you break out of a rut or your shell. Start living.