It’s funny, I read this and thought that is me, I am 26 in two months, I currently am not working and to be honest I really don’t know what I want to do, I get stressed over it!
The only thing I’ve ever learnt is that being true to yourself is what counts, I have spent the last year trying to make friends with my partners family and their friends and frankly is been pointless, I say thinking of every way I could possibly become part of this group of people until I recently realised, I do have my own identity and i don’t really identify with them in most ways, I know who I am, and really.. Who gives if I prefer my own company or would like to spend time alone or not in a group, you are you! Really it doesn’t matter who thinks your boring or whatever aslong as your happy that’s all that matters.. I tried conforming and doing all the things they liked doing but in reality it’s not me .. Life’s a journey you may think you haven’t found yourself yet but you probably have, you just confuse yourself by telling yourself you should be more this way or that way.. Take some time out alone, connect with yourself .. But if you like a good book and nights alone your not the only one I assure you and there’s nothing wrong with that .. It’s way better to be apart from the crowd walking to the beat of ur own drum than in a band where your drowned out by all the other sounds!