@elizabeth_Mack oh don’t worry. i appreciate both of your advices coming from two different point of view. And I think I’m really in the middle.

It really hurts me seeing how he doesn’t even care or respect my feelings. It’s been months since I last cried for the break up and this incident made me cry like a baby all over again. And thus, in this state I really think I shouldn’t be contacting him at all. I’ve already replied him as positive as I can.

your advice actually made me realise how ridiculously rude he was. I ranted in FB (i know i shouldn’t. but i admit i’m childish and it does make me feel more at ease. but it doesn’t stop me from hurting at all) and i belive his friends would have showed him what I said too; about how it’s fine that he doesn’t respect our relationship but disrespecting me even after 5 months by bothering me with his new girl problems. He should deal with his own girl problem that he signed up for. He let go of our long term relationship for a ridiculous relationship of 5 months (officially 3 weeks); so how can he expect to confide in me?

your advice brought out the strength in me
animalkindness’s advice brought out the forgiving side of me. (if not I would have sent him a last message about his disrespectful he is and he can talk to me about anything but if he wants to talk about his girl, go find someone else to talk to).