Hi myheartbleeding,

They have a name for people like this: Friends.

I know exactly what she’s talking about when she says you are spiritual friends. You will always have a connection. You will always think about and support each other.

But my dear, when she tells you she has Aspergers, has a child/other priorities, doesn’t want physical contact, BELIEVE HER. I’m not even counting the hoarding.

For your own sanity, cast her in the “Friend” category in your mind, and have NO expectations from this girl.

She might not become conventionally normal, even if she tried. Don’t try to change her nature. Don’t carry a torch for her, either.

Blessings,

Inky