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Dear Elizabeth Mack:
I find the human psyche, mind, brain fascinating. I enjoy guessing what is going on in another’s psyche (as i work hard on revealing my own to myself… and making my psyche more “user friendly”) Because I enjoy guessing and I think it MAY be helpful to you… (I have very low expectations of being helpful becasue even if I understand something about another correctly- IF I do- often the other person does not want to see what is there- neither did I, neither do I…)
So, please let me know if my following guess work piece has any meaning to you whatsoever, if there is any truth to it:
My guessing is that you are somewhat, somehow a bystander in your own life. There is something that is wrong- about your past, carried into the present. Something wrong that you need to look into- some hurt, some betrayal that others did not see and therefore you figured too that it didn’t happen. Or it wasn’t that important: something you denied or minimized.
Was there a trauma, an injury that you suffered that others stood by, doing nothing about?
anita