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Hi, I think Laura has given some excellent advice on what you can do for yourself if you choose to extend your stay in this current city. How confident are you on trying to move to another place and get a job? And do you have the financial “cushion” to do so? Meaning enough money to last until you can find one etc, and any idea or where to head to? Is this country safe, and wherever you are headed?
It’s hard to calm down when it seems that everything is happening at once. 6 months can pass quickly or slowly. I know you are miserable, but you seem like a smart girl who has already listed down the pros and cons of whichever step you choose to take. Here’s my two cents worth… If I don’t have the financial cushion and confidence etc, I’ll stay for 6 months. Low salary, but at least I have shelter and good experience which helps in job hunting. And for the next 6 months, I invest the time on my physical health, work on my job search and trying to make friends in the place you think you want to go. Via couchsurfing etc. If you have the money to move, and think that the next 6 months in this job is absolutely unbearable, then just go. You are young. You have time. All will be fine.
best,
aurora