OK, to make you feel better, my DH had a girlfriend that he couldn’t say “No” to. And he ~ wait for it ~ moved all his stuff out and rode away on his bike!! YES, she came home to an empty house. YES, she was pissed! YES, she got over it (eventually fell in love, got married and had a family)! YES, she eventually found out where he lived years later. YES, she asked if they could get together for “lunch while she was in the area”. YES, he told her “No” (perhaps for the first time). Guess what? Everyone survived!
In this case YOUR physical safety TRUMPS his hurt feelings. Matt’s right. It’s NOT worth the risk!
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