Dear tiredandfedup7:

You wrote that you are interested in geting off the never-ending-emotional-family-rollercoster, no longer getting the bad end of things and constant blame, and in living your own life as you please.

You wrote last that you decided that you will be cutting ties for sure with one of your siblings and consider to cut ties with more of your siblings and that you will not be attending your nephew’s wedding.

My question: will your decision to do the above bring you the goal that you desire (the Yes to 1,2,3)?

You did NOT write that you will be cutting ties with your mother. Will you be able to reach your goal (1,2,3) while continuing the ties with your mother?

anita