Dear Carlos..
no I don’t mind you asking at all.

He did give me,space and just like your ex I told him that we should just be friends…it was really hard to try and,just be friends and in the beginning we found ourselves falling back into the same routines..
we talk daily but we’re trying not to see each other at the moment..
one,thing that has really helped me is how persistent he is..he has always been..he’s patient and once in a while he reminds me that he’s there for me..which helps me and motivates me to work on myself cause I have this amazing guy who won’t give up on me…one who loves me enough to wait..that has helped me alot..

try and talk to her once in a while..let her know that you are there for her..

but is it just the 2 past relationships that caused her insecurities?..
what is her family life like?
her childhood…?