She could very well be using the “just friends” excuse to push you back. However, the result is the same……she’s not choosing a relationship with you, regardless of the reason. Your job is to decide if you sit and wait for her to change her mind or move on with your life. Moving on doesn’t mean you close the door completely, but it does mean you begin to look for what you want in a relationship in other people (someone who chooses to be in a relationship with you). Putting your life on hold until she can figure her life out doesn’t seem to serve either of you very well.

~Jodi