Helen, Everyone believes things differently and that is ok. I do remember reading in the Bible though what Anita did quote. Thanks for that Anita, I know that is what it says. Helen, I do want to tell her because I want her to know, she needs to know. I know she might say that she already did, but I know that if she still cant accept it after I tell her that this is who I am and that it is not a phase that I will be ok with it. I may get hurt again, but I wont hold onto it. And I will be ok. Same goes for my dad. I know this and I have learned that I have to accept that. Thanks for your support Helen.