Hi JessicaEmily,

People abusing you isn’t bad luck. Bad luck is a bird pooping on your car or the shop being randomly closed when you planned to be there. Your family made a CHOICE to abuse you! And they’re in court? GOOD!! Once they are sentenced, you will (should!) feel a GREAT sense of justice. What they did wasn’t just to “you”. It is a Social Crime. They CANNOT do what they did and get away with it!! They should be thankful a judge is sentencing them instead of God.

My main advice to you is to take a self-defense course. There is something about doing that ~ your aura becomes stronger, YOU become physically stronger, and people INSTINCTIVELY know NOT to mess with you! It’s the strangest thing. One family member who used to mess with me tried something (“I was just playing around!”) and because of mere muscle memory I did a very basic, unconscious self defense move and everyone was all “Holy Crap!” Now I have “street cred” LOL.

Another thing that will happen is the abuse will grow less and less the older you get. It’s easier to pick on a shy young girl than a tough old broad LOL.

And throw a Victory Celebration for yourself WHEN you reach the One Year Anniversary of being abuse free!!

Wishing you ALL THE BEST!!!

Inky