Hi Anita,

I have to completely disagree here. We were planning a trip for the weekend, Friday morning we were talking about it happily, Friday evening I did not hear from him. That Friday night, he slept with the intern. On the Saturday he said that he had food poisoning and that we should arrange the trip for when he felt better.

Your comment has greatly saddened me. If this was a change of course, then he should have sat down with this girl and discussed being together, not had sex with her and led me to believe that we would still have our weekend plans later. If this was a change of course, he should have addressed this with me, explained that he has feelings for someone else when I asked him directly, which I did, rather than lie to me, which he did. This to me is cheating, clear cut- it doesn’t matter if it happened for months or a day.

I understand that my posts bring new information but a lot happened and I did not want to write a book in my original post.