Dear Anita,

Yes you have a point there.

Also, your remark reminds me. Often what we see in others is a reflection of ourselves, of how we look at others and at the world.
Do you know that story, where they let a puppy in a room, and it comes out all distressed, barking and angry. And then they let in a second one, that comes out all jumping and wagging its tail.
So you wonder: what is in that room, that makes one dog so angry and the other one happy. And it turns out, the room is full of mirrors. Often if we start from a more positive attitude, we will be more likely to like people than when we are stressed or negative about them
Generally speaking, that is.