Dear Daniel C.:

Many people pay a high price for caring about others more than about themselves, trying to please others at own expense. Please be selfish if that means making yourself the first priority in your life. You are not selfish when you place yourself as number one in your life, you are healthy if you do that.

Trying to be a saint, that is putting others’ welfare in place of your own, doesn’t make you good; it makes you sick.

We are animals and animals are meant by natural selection, survival, to do what needs to be done for their own survival.

anita