Just out of curiosity, how do you spend 5 years with someone and then realize that you’re not compatible? I mean, I know after 6 months if i am or not compatible with someone and I don’t think i have sixth sense or anything lol. AND i’m a guy (read SLOW). Women would usually tell me within a month or two if they felt compatibility issues.

But anyway, back to the real issue. Have you tried just not giving shit? lol. I’m serious. Just stop looking! I’ve been single for almost 8 months now and haven’t gone on a single date since the breakup. I did match.com and a couple of other dating sites before I met my ex outside of any online dating site. And honestly going back makes me physically sick. Dating shouldn’t start so superficially.. based purely on looks. Maybe i’m too old fashioned but that’s what turned me away from online dating. Instead, i’m focusing on what makes me happy like hobbies and traveling… you know… just doing my own thing. I know this sounds cliche, but the most romantic encounters I had with women usually happened in the most obscure and unexpected situations. Even though none of them worked out, I still believe that at some point one will lol. So, seriously… chill out 🙂 You’re a beautiful girl. Dress to impress. Go out. Do your thing. Someone great will show up and won’t let you down 🙂