OMG, Anita, I think you’re right!! About not having the genetic justification for his failure!!

Or, he sees himself in us, so if we succeed, that doesn’t fit his image and he freaks out…

YES, about the blessing. You can’t argue with crazy, why seek it out?

I just view him as one with a mental illness (narcissism, bi-polar).

I remember one day I read a description of bi-polar disorder, not the symptoms but the personality type and I cried. It was my dad. My dad is not my dad, he’s a friggin’ medical description.

Thank you for a light bulb moment!!