Anita,
Thank you so much for your feedback. I definitely see where you’re coming from.. if I am to approach things from a matter-of-fact view, there is no room for any of my “selfish motives” for him to be pressured by. I’ll definitely begin to consider how I want to approach things on a more specific level.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 