I once left a husband who I should have left years before-based on inaccurate projection. I should have left him because he was selfish, drunk, beat holes in the walls, tore doors of the frames. Beat me when I tried to stop him.

one day I had lunch ready and he came home for work and couldn’t find something………I tried to help him find it, but he yelled at me “GO EAT YOURSELF” I was so insulted, it was the last straw. I packed up what I could in my little car–took $40 and never came back–moving 3 hours away.

Later I realized he meant for me to go eat my lunch without him. I laughed then and I laugh now. Thanks for the memory