correction in my post

I do feel forgiveness is important. Forgiving yourself is very important. I see so many post about people wanting to forgive others before they deal with issues within themselves.

in your post–you come across as so caring and loving. What I was trying to say was in my opinion-it is hurtful to ourselves to try to forgive someone who is still actively hurting us, Still has destructive behavior that could hurt your child, Still has enablers who allow the person (we want to forgive) to not deal and start fixing themselves.

Love and light
Seaisland