Thanks for your responses. I hate that you both went through the same issue, but it makes me feel better that I’m not alone.

His car is “suped up”, meaning he paid extra to have loud exhaust pipes installed. My mom told me this morning she woke up in a panic because of it. Other than this problem, we love where we live and would have to have to move out – especially because its possible it can happen anywhere.

When I lived in an upstairs apartment, I was very conscious of how I walked, was careful not to slam doors, etc. as to not annoy the neighbor below. I don’t understand how some people just have complete disregard for others. Ive been thinking about starting meditation, because I don’t want to affect my life any longer.

Thank you for your input!