Dear Wisdom:

You can’t figure out everything from where you are right now. There will never be a time when everything will be planned out with 100% guarantee of success..and then you execute the plan. You plan some, then take a step, experience it, then make more choices. Not all at once before doing anything.

I moved to California on my own a long time ago. It is a big state. Where in California are you thinking of moving to? In Southern CA the rents are very expensive but depends on the area. If you move, you can rent a room in someone’s house, you can live with roommates, you can rent a small Bachelor (small apt without a kitchen) or a Single (with kitchen) for lesser money than renting a One Bedroom.

So will you take your kindergarten teacher’s invitation? That will be taking a step and experiencing it instead of planning everything at once (unworkable, really!_

anita