Dear Ameila_R:

If you choose to give him another chance, I would suggest that you give him another chance without demanding it from yourself to trust him. Your trust in him was broken at this point. So it will need to be rebuilt if it is to be again.

For as long as we are distressed, our thinking is not that effective. I call it “Thinking under the influence of distress”- not that different than drugs, strong emotion does not allow effective thinking. So calm yourself, and post again. This doesn’t have to be solved now or today. Give yourself the time you need.

anita