Hi hurts,
In the future, don’t give sex away before love. Be in a committed relationship first. Tell the next guy that the last guy ruined it for him, that you’ve done it the regular way and now you have to level up your relationships.
Think of it AS “Leveling Up”. You are now on, say, Level 10 and this sex-only BF is still at Level 5.
He’s now not worthy of you. Reframe the whole thing in your mind. YOU broke up with HIM. Sure, he can give a song and dance about getting other girls, but talking that way is the nail in the coffin for him.
Hope this Helps,
Inky
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