do you think it’s really true that we should have to love ourselves before other people love us? i think that i’ve asked you this before but i don’t remember. either that our i just held on to the question for a long long time. i just don’t get it though people can have friends and all, but then they’ll discuss insecurities and yada yada. not to say that they’re the best of friends, but they seem to be. i just don’t get how people can have friends, true friends but they’re either too mean or they don’t really seem to love themselves (if they talk about insecurity). yet some very genuine and nice people just get left behind. it’s almost unfair.