Just wanted to update everyone who gave great advice. The meeting went very,very well. We talked for the majority of the time about some (thankfully fairly minor) issues with our daughter and then did discuss some of the leftover feelings from the ending of our marriage. The ironic thing is that he recently ended a year long relationship in which he became unhappy because he and the woman just were not a good fit and says this opened his eyes to what I was feeling when we separated. We ended by catching up a little on our respective families and mutual friends…even discussed music and “regular” things a little.

I don’t know where it’ll go from here. It’s a little early to say we’ll be friends but we can definitely be civil and friendly so for that I’m grateful!