Hi Sapnap3,

I’m sending continued condolences about your Dad, I can’t even imagine!!

Not to be catastrophic or morbid, but…. OK, my DH had moved back home “because his parents were older and needed him”. Well, they didn’t need him at all then, actually!! Ten years later his Dad died. And ten years after that, his mother DID need him ~ 24/7 ~ while she was dying. It was a long process. She was in Hospice for a year. One day, when your Mom is very ill or very old, I know you’ll be there for her in that way!!

This is why they invented Holidays. During those times we visit the family. And guess what? The older you get, the more in common with your sisters you’ll be!! I just went out to dinner with my older sister and our cousin. The cousin is twelve years older than me, and now it’s like we’re great old friends!!

I would stay in Dublin until/unless you lose the job or breakup with the BF.

Blessings,

Inky