Dear Lily:

I think it is better to not work on interpersonal relationships with people at work- not the place, beyond the limited interactions conducive to the work itself.

I don’t know how much of the rejection you experience when talking to people is your inaccurate projection, that is: you believe that you are unappealing and when you talk to someone and there is a frown on their face, if you think it is a reflection of you being unappealing while it may be a frown that is always there, or they may have a stomach cramp at that moment.

Looking forward to your example!

anita