Hi William,

If the other woman didn’t exist, would you divorce your wife? Would you get a divorce whether there was someone else or not? Once you answer that, then you’ll know what to do.

The hanging out with her and not touching her? That follows The Letter of the Law, but not the Spirit of the Law, if you know what I mean. You are using each other as scaffolding, but you are not the each other’s structure.

Work it out with your wife. Or not! Maybe in ten or twenty years you and your friend can be together. Who knows? But concentrate on the Present right now.

Blessings,

Inky