Watch Caroline Myss videos on you tube, you will get your answer. We all do have fate and destiny, but we choose how to go through them. So it means there are not mistakes or wrong paths, as all these great teachers say, it’s just important with one intention you make your decision, eventually you will reach were you supose to reach, in this lifetime or another. AND THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS LUCK. So take a breath and relax. It’s all moving energy, you were probably needed to pay attention to somethig, an energy you were carrying, or something else in your life, and universe is trying to grab your attention, I’ve had a ver hard year as well, and I know that , universe tries to grab your attention with small nudges, and if you don’t listen or pay attention, because you are too busy trying to fix things, or hold on to things instead of just be in the moment and listen, the whispers get louder and louder, and it repeats as many times as it needs to until you learn what you suppose to learn. You do have a choice, choice to listen and go down your path a lot smoother than you were going before, I learned this lesson in a hard way as well. Read the power of intention by wayne dyer as well, it will change your life.
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