Hello Louise, this is really a difficult situation. I would suggest that you take some time out to yourself…. go to a park/forest or even spend a night in a hotel if you can. Focus on your thaughts about each man. Try to imagine your life without your boyfriend – how do you feel about it? Then how would you imagine your best friend in difficult situations that arise during a proper relationship or even having children with him? Try to see the bigger picture and do not just listen to your heart right now because of this new exiting feelings. Every realtionship will grow and will not always be “new” but that does not mean that we should move on with someone else each time. Take your time and be honest to the two men involved and mostly to yourself. I hope this helps you in some way. All the best Anne