What he’s doing is very hurtful! But don’t fall into the trap of thinking “what could I do better to make him change?” You can’t change another person’s feelings and actions, only your own. Be better to yourself! Do the things you love and have fun with family and friends who are close to you. The last time I went through a painful breakup, I decided the best thing to do was pamper and take care of myself, so I took a one week vacation with my best friend to Mexico!