Thanks for the book recommendation Brittany,  I have  just purchased it 🙂

I think it can be hard to find the balance of being understanding and conscientious for your partner and also making sure your needs are met, all we can do is just live in the now and enjoy the time we have with our loved ones…..if he or she  isn’t the one you end up having a loving relationship with then its still okay because maybe this was just a lesson and an experience u needed along the way.