Dear Paula, i have read your note,
One. i would get some legal advice.
Two. I personally wouldn’t bother with the game system, you want, because it is all a control method for him to keep a hold over you to get what he wants.
Three. Once he is out of the picture, learn to look after yourself.
Don’t allow this to bring you down or make you feel like a bad person or make you feel low in any shape or form.
Think about what you want for yourself and begin to do those things, maybe write a list of things you want to do or change or improve on and do them.
You need to try to find a way to cut him out for good or he will control you and bring you down.
Love yourself. keep positive and see what advice you can get.

i hope it goes well, keep posted and if you ever need help or someone to just chat too i am here.

em