Hi Jennie,
It seems to me like you have ended these relationships. You say they are your ex’s now and you have remained friends with them. As long as you are not still “in love” with either of them, I don’t see a problem with having a friendship with them. Many people are able to have friendships with their ex’s. The only thing that concerns me is when you mentioned the one who was abusive. I would end all contact with him, if he is still this way toward you.
This does not mean, you still can’t move forward and have a happy life, and have hope for better things. It’s great that you are working on yourself. You deserve to be in a loving, stable relationship with a healthy man capable of giving You love.
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This reply was modified 7 years, 9 months ago by
Eliana.
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This reply was modified 7 years, 9 months ago by
Eliana.
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This reply was modified 7 years, 9 months ago by
Eliana.