Short back story:
I met this girl in early September, we hit it off perfectly from the first date. We’ve been seeing each other regularly for the past 5 months and have had very minor issues. Earlier this week, I was hit with the “We need to talk” text. As a further back note, we’ve been experiencing intimacy issues as I deal with an issue known as PE, which ultimately affects both of us and creates a lot of sexual frustration. During the talk, this was brought up as the main issue, along with her basically saying our relationship was sort of stuck in a rut. I think this mindset is ultimately the result of intimacy issues. I’ve been seeing a therapist for this issue and am actually getting prescribed meds to help with the problem.

I am a CPA and work insane hours. I have 3.5 weeks left in my current job (due to unhappiness, travel, hating my job). She is also starting a new job next week and also in a master’s program for counseling psychology. She suggested we take a break until I am done with my job and also ask if we would be willing to see other people during this time.

We have a trip booked to NY the weekend I quit and she said she still really wants to go. I think I may be overreacting but I don’t want to waste either of our times if this is actually a sign she wants to completely end things. I asked her this straight up and she said she never thought of breaking up completely, just a temporary break.

Any thoughts on the situation?