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May 6, 2016 at 9:46 am #103772BlankckvParticipant
Yes anita.That’s why I really don’t know what to do
May 6, 2016 at 10:18 am #103773AnonymousGuestDear Blankckv:
Thank you for the quotes. Following is what I say is true:
Whatever you think, is okay. No thought that you have is good or bad. All your thoughts have no power outside of you. All your thoughts are temporary mental events. Most are not of your choosing and just happen. It is not required of you to think this but not that. What you think is your personal business. It is nobody’s business but yours. There is no god or any kind, no buddha, no entity that knows what you think. If you don’t tell anyone what you think, that person cannot know what you think. No one can read your mind. What you think is private. you will not punished for any thought you have. No matter what thought you have, you will not be punished for it.
Whatever you say out loud, when there is no one that hears you, is okay. You can say out loud whatever you want, whatever you don’t want to say. As long as no person hears you, what you say has no power, just like your silent thoughts. If there is no one to hear you, it is the same as if you thought it silently.
There is no god, no entity that hears your thoughts and makes a list of your wrongdoings and then punishes you for them. Everyone suffers no matter what they think, say and do. The bad, the good and the indifferent, everyone suffers disease, natural disasters, misfortune, hurt, and everyone dies.
What you fear is fantasy, not real. You are not in danger of being punished for what you think or what you say when no one is there to hear it.
When you talk to someone who is listening to you, talk responsibly. For example, don’t say to a person: “You are ugly!” because it is hurtful. For that you are responsible. If you don’t abuse another by your talk to that person or behavior with that person, you are okay.
You can print what I just wrote here so you have a quote that will help you and not harm you. It is the truth, you know.
anita
May 6, 2016 at 5:12 pm #103797BlankckvParticipantAnita thanks you very much.So even if i think of Don’t sit on the head of buddha.Don’t sit on the above buddha.I said this when I see someone post photo in facebook,That A man is on the head of buddha.I saying in my thoughts don’t sit like. Thinking like that because I never never think like that before.Even if I angry I never said bad words to buddha.I.
May 6, 2016 at 8:07 pm #103827AnonymousGuestDear Blankckv:
Even if you think Don’t sit on the head of buddha, you are safe. You will not be punished. It is safe for you to think any thought, even the most extreme thought you can imagine.
It is safe for anyone to think any thought. It is okay. You can think anything and everything and you are safe.
You will not be punished for thinking. You will not be punished for saying bad words to buddha.
It is safe to think. Anything. It is safe to say bad words to buddha.
anita
May 7, 2016 at 5:23 am #103853BlankckvParticipantSorry for my bad English anita.Before I mention about buddha drama.The drama name is also buddha he episode is above 30.I’m there what devadatta do to buddha.At the end what happen about him also includ in that series.That I scared about is the natural will not forgive me,this kind of thoughts I had.But I hope they’ll know this is that I really not wanted to think.I regard what I think bad words to buddha.
May 7, 2016 at 7:22 am #103858AnonymousGuestDear Blankcky:
It is okay, Blankckv, it really is okay to think bad words to buddha or to anything and anyone. It really is a private matter, what you think, and what anyone thinks. The only place where your thinking happens is between your ears. And that space in between your ears is your private place. Nobody is welcome there but you. It is okay. You are okay.
anita
May 8, 2016 at 5:32 am #103902BlankckvParticipantSo even if i said bad words to buddha in mind,The buddha and naturnkey will be forgive me?.I’m afraid is the nature won’t be forgive me.I can’t con troll of myself.Me myself completely confused about this.
May 8, 2016 at 7:15 am #103912AnonymousGuestDear Blankckv:
I will repeat the above: “It is okay, Blankckv, it really is okay to think bad words to buddha or to anything and anyone. It really is a private matter, what you think, and what anyone thinks. The only place where your thinking happens is between your ears. And that space in between your ears is your private place. Nobody is welcome there but you. It is okay. You are okay.”
Regarding you being forgiven for your thoughts and words said out loud that no person heard: there is no sin that needs to be forgiven. You have done nothing wrong. So there is nothing to forgive.
anita
May 8, 2016 at 9:01 pm #104001BlankckvParticipantThanks you very much anita.I’ll try my best to get rid of this thoughts.Can I ask u if I want to know something?
May 9, 2016 at 6:45 am #104016AnonymousGuestDear Blankckv:
Don’t try to get rid of your thoughts- that doesn’t work. Instead let your thoughts be, but instead of being scared of them, relax into the reality that your thoughts are not dangerous, that these thoughts you are having will not hurt you and that you will not be punished for having them.
You can ask me.
anita
May 9, 2016 at 8:15 am #104031BlankckvParticipantThanks you anita can i ask something anita?This thoughts.Can start become that when me and my bff and start and fight and I don’t know what to do before that I not like this.I think my thoughts come becoz of this?
May 9, 2016 at 8:17 am #104032BlankckvParticipantThey not just said in once.They repeat and repeat again.I can’t control this thoughts.
May 9, 2016 at 8:45 am #104033AnonymousGuestDear Blankckv:
I didn’t understand your question, your last two posts. Can you make it clear for me?
anita
May 9, 2016 at 10:56 pm #104101BlankckvParticipantSorry for my bad English anita.I mean I start this thoughtsite when I fight with my bff and I angry so I said in my bad to her.Then this little voice iso saying again and again.I tried to turn good thoughts.But it’s like a demon is controlling me.I don’t waMt. The more I try to get rid this thogut,The more my thoughts saying bad thoughts.At first my mind is saying just bad words only to her.Later I don’t know i just saying in mind bad words to buddha too.I don’t know how to deal with thoughts.I only afraid I will be just like a goutama buddha brothers devadatta.
May 10, 2016 at 6:36 am #104121AnonymousGuestDear Blankckv:
Your thoughts have no power outside your own head. The distance between your ears is the place where your thoughts happen. There is no one else living in your brain, only you, so only you knows your thoughts.
As I wrote to you before, on this thread, you obviously suffer from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Anxiety fuels it.
Please read about OCD, seek professional help for it. There are psychiatric medications prescribed for OCD that often enough work. These are the SSRI class of drugs from prozac to zoloft, luvox and others.
Please see a psychiatrist for relief from the obsessions you are suffering from.
I can’t help you here. I already wrote all that I can in my efforts to help you. It is necessary that you seek professional help. Please do and post again after you see a professional, probably a psychiatrist for relief.
anita
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