After my mother died I went many years feeling distant from my father. We just couldn’t connect. I believed he was selfish and only cared about himself. After some time we only talked at birthdays and holidays. I wanted so much to have a better relationship with him but it just wasnt happening. I couldn’t make the time to even call him. Once I decided I must attempt to change our relationship I applied what I learned from Dr Wayne Dyer and that was to just look for the good in someone and ask to be guided by spirit. When I truly applied that everything that happened was amazing and still is. I was on my way to my dads house and I was so determined to love him unconditional and forget about the past. I saw a new person he only cared about what I had to say and felt the love he had for me. Our relationship now is great. He went on to improve himself and took a self help class to improve himself to have a better relationship with all his children. He also went on to follow his dreams that he put on hold when my mom had died. It’s not so much that my dad changed but my perception changed and I feel that was extremely important other wise I still would be only looking for the worse in him. I feel when you look for the worse in someone you can only see just that. When you look for the good in someone you will most likly see more of that.
Sal